Question: Abused women, Did he make it seem like you are the bad guy?

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Answer #1:

No, but I was depressed and stuck wondering if I should just stick it out. I ended up breaking up with him, though.

Answer #2:

No, this is a common tactic of an abusive man: "I wouldn't have to do this if you didn't drive me crazy (or whatever his evil of choice is)." Call your local domestic violence agency; they will have low-cost or free counseling to help you get over the feeling of being "the bad guy." In the meantime, Google the "Power and Control Wheel;" it will help you understand the types, degrees and tactics of abusers.





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