Question #1:

HELP!!! Should I continue to date him or not?

My new boyfriend is 30, I am 35. We have been dating 2 months.

He never shows much emotion or feelings towards me. Even if I send him a loving message he doesn't always reply. Instead he says it is too direct, and that we are only dating 2 months and he doesn't know if he can trust me yet.

Lately he tries to make me jealous by giving compliments for example to a waitress (she was small and not as pretty as me but was cute in her own way) in a restaurant in front of me. I was upset because he never gives me compliments.

He tries to be the big guy by complaining about his secretary's work and showing off by saying he is going to sack her.

He made racist comments to a guy in a bar one evening and ended up getting kicked out of the bar. He constantly makes racist comments and I hate that as I have some lovely friends from various countries.

He has a good job as a chartered accountant yet is stingy with money. He never takes me out for dinner but just for drinks. Even on our first date he bought me a tiny beer even though he knows I drink pints yet bought himself a pint!

Once in a bar there was a different price marked on a menu for a beer, they had forgotten to update it and that the bar they charged him another price and he got angry and asked for a free drink.

He lives in another town and it is always me that has to travel the distance to go and see him.

WHY DOES HE ACT THIS WAY? DO YOU THINK HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ME?

I got angry with him about his behaviour and I told him that he had issues and needs to see a psychologist. He then told me that I judged him without knowing him long enough and that he needs to think about dating me or not. He hasn't phoned me in a week. What do I do now?

Question #2:

Enter please mail by landlord is a fraud?

Hi,

thank you for entering
I got this e-mail by a landlord and I'd like to know if it's a fraud or could be true

Hi Xxxx,


Since you are ready to view,i will plan my time here and make sure am there before you arrive.
 
 

The only thing is that i need double assurance, because i want to avoid traveling from Birmingham to london in vain, i can afford my fare, but i can't afford to waste my time.
 

 
My Lawyer will get a contract ready for you to sign if you like to take the room after viewing and the keys will be handed over to you immediately after contract has been signed.
 
 

Also, receipt of payment will be issued to you after which you'l have to sign the lease agreement form.
 

 
I was discussing with my Lawyer about the idea on how i will be so sure that i will not just waste my time to london without acheiving my the aim and she advised that we can work out something via Western Union Money Transfer.
 


She said that Western Union Money Transfer can actually hold the money as an evidence and surety that her tenant will pay her at least for the first month and deposit. She gave me an option on what we can do since you have the funds at hand which will be explained below:
 


PROCEDURE:
 


1) Transfer the amount £800 (1 month rent and security deposit) to any of your family members (wife, dad, mum, siblings) or your friend.



Your name (as sender) to any of your family members (wife, dad, mum, siblings) or your friend (as Receiver) in London or other parts of UK.
 


2) Scan & Send a copy of the Western Union Money Transfer transaction receipt as a proof of the transaction  or mail me the transaction details. (The money is safe as it is only you that can withdraw since you need a national ID card or International passport)
 


3) Then, we will meet for viewing.
 


4) If you decide to take the room, we will go to any local Western Union Money Transfer office for you to pick up the money and pay me. (You don't need to come with cash to view, after viewing we will go together, you will cancel the transfer and withdraw the money to pay me).
 


5) Keys will be handed over to you after signing the contracts.   
 


I am pretty sure that the transaction at Western Union Money Transfer office will require some charges, i will definitely refund the transaction charges back to you upon viewing and if you don't see what i sent as pictures of my flat to you, you are free to leave without paying me anything.
 


I only want to be sure that i am not going to waste my time this time around and i think with this condition, both of us can be sure we are not wasting our time.
 


I will only rely on your honesty that you have made the transaction so that i can reserve the flat for you.  
 


Let me know if you are okay with this so that we can proceed. Thanks so much while i will be waiting to read from you and i am looking forward to meet you and be great friends eventually.
 


NB: PLS DO NOT MAKE PAYMENT TO ME OR IN MY NAME, WHAT I NEED IS JUST AN EVIDENCE THAT YOU HAVE THE CASH TO PAY ONCE YOU HAVE VIEWED.



My contact number is XXXXXXX i do have network problems with my phone at the moment but can receive text messages and then i can call you back at my spare time.
 


I am sorry for the lengthy mail, i only want to explain myself better.



Warm regards and have a nice day

Thank you very much in advance for your help
 

Question #3:

I NEED HELP,I FEEL LIKE ENDING EVEYTHING?(Killing myself)?

So yesterday i did the most stupidest thing in my life which will haunt me forever.Let me start off by saying im 17years old, well today i would of been 4months pregnant but my baby's father didn't want noting to do with us after he told me he wanted a baby with me.So i let him get to me to get a abortion and all i wanted was to keep my baby.I loved him but i loved my unborn child born child more but i guess it doesn't seem like it.Now im emotional destroyed while he is stressed free with his friends having fun.And til today i asked why was i so in love with him he was mentally abusive towards me, he stolen from my family, i was the one carrying his child but yet i had to give him money(i know that was stupid).and in top of everything i have problems with my family, i stay from house to house because my mother and i are always arguing and i could just keep going with my problems.Anyways, i just don't know what to do anymore i honestly feel like killing myself and end everything, i just want my unborn child back......PLS HELP!

Question #4:

Why are my shih tzu puppies dying?

My female shih-tzu has given birth before twice and she took care of all of them and theres never been a death. Both of the times she gave birth to around 6 or 7. I've never had the chance or money to go get her spayed so I just assumed it wouldn't happen again...but I was wrong and she did it with my neighbors shih-tzu (The one I gave her..its pretty gross actually)

Anyways, towards the end of her pregnancy we noticed she wasn't giving birth and she looked like she was in pain so we took her to the vet and found the she had 9 puppies which weren't able to come out! So they had to do a c section on her. Miraculously both the dog AND her 9 puppies survived.

On the first day home we had to force feed each and every one. This was a pain but we managed to do it. The vet also suggested we buy a heating pad to keep the puppies warm because we weren't supposed to keep them with the mother. So we did buy one and everything seemed to go smoothly...then the next morning 3 were dead...then in the middle of the day 2 more died....
We tried making sure they got enough heat and we fed them every 5 or so hours but it didn't work because this morning 2 more died.

I'm kinda hoping that we are doing something wrong because if its a birth defect or problem then the rest probably have small chances of surviving. I want to save the last two that are alive, I would assume they were the two strongest of the litter otherwise they wouldn't have survived this long.

also I think I can rule out suffocation by the mother because some died even though they were separated from her. Also we are force feeding them with milk we bought from the pet store. I also doubt its parvo because we bought the mother from a pet store as a puppy(like, 4-5 years ago) and she was vaccinated for almost everything. The father did have parvo once though(a year ago) but luckily he didn't die and he didn't get vaccinated and hes a perfectly healthy dog. The mother is also being given some pills and vitamins because of the surgery. Do you think that might infect her milk or somehow affect the puppies? They ARE drinking from her tits

!!!----!!!----!!!----!!!
Before anyone starts making assumptions I am NOT a breeder, I don't care about the money or anything like that we are giving the dogs to friends and family. The vet also offered to spay her for free while he was doing the c section and we agreed so no more puppies. I just want suggestions on how I can save these dogs.
I don't think they are dehydrating form the heating pad because yesterday we let them sleep with the mother on her bed and two died. I'll be monitor their temperature though, thanks for the suggestion. Does anyone else see something weird here?

also, I've heard that inbreeding doesn't really matter in dogs. But I've never heard of this situation, Mother+Son

Question #5:

What should I do about this situation?

It's a bit of a long story, but I'll try and keep it short as best as I can lol!!

Basically, I am friends with this girl who's parents don't work. They claim all sorts of benefits that they don't need, basically. They are more than capable to go to work.
My friend has two other siblings, and whilst they get spoilt rotten for their mother's accident payout money, they barely have any clothes, or barely any underwear (e.g, my friend only has one bra =/)
They have no necessities at all.
We also have suspicions that they are being mean to their dogs... Whenever I go round their house, I always see them quivering in the corner and they are shaking like hell. Whenever they do something "naughty" they supposedly get a tap on the nose... Which is a lie because I've actually seen them slap a dog round the face before and also screaming in it's face. How awful is that?! They don't deserve any pets the way they treat them!

I hate to use this word but... They're complete scroungers. The minute after one of their relatives died, guess what the mother did?? Go round to his house and ransack it of all the expensive and electrical goods before anyone else could lay their hands on them!!!

I just find it so unfair... They live in a beautiful council house, they get new phones EVERY SINGLE MONTH and they get literally everything for free. Whilst my mum has worked hard all her life to get to where we are now, and yet they get it all served up for them whilst they lay about on their @sses all day!!
It ain't just me and my whole family that thinks this though, it's their neighbours (because I've heard them gossiping) and even everyone at her school.

What should I do?? Everyone is fed up of this. My mum is thinking about reporting them but she hasn't done it for fear of being ridiculed as a grass. Please help, we are at our wits end of these benefit cheats!!!! Thanks for reading, sorry it was long. xx

Question #6:

Free business/economy book summaries?

Hello everybody,
I feel like I should be reading more business and economy books but the problem is that I don't have enough time and more importantly enough money to get that kind of books... Also, I live in Morocco which makes it even harder to get english business books
can anyone help please?
Thank you

Question #7:

IS THEIR ANy way where i can get P90X for free without download or money or anything?

I am working on get muscle particularly abs,
and i was wondering if their was anywhere
where i can watch P90X for free? Help will
Be appreciated.
Or if theirs non can you get me major intesify
Workouts, that you can suggest, i want major
6 Pack abs, and yes i have already complete
loosing weight i have about 10% body fat.
1. Any place i can get to watch P90X for free?
2. Any intensifying workouts for major six pack abs?

Thanks :)

Question #8:

What is a free virus protector which i can get off the internet?

I am looking for a free virus protector off the internet because i am low on money and mine has just run out... any programs would be much appreciated!

Question #9:

Do you get sick of government bailouts?

I am sick of governments bailing out finance companies, banks and other businesses. What happened to personal responsibility? Why can't I get a tax cut instead? I work hard enough for my living why should I be giving my money out to people that have stuffed up or misspent their money? What happened to hard work, being rewarded living is a free market capitalist society. After all living in the free market should be about paying huge taxes and bail outs and crap public services.
Whos with me?

Question #10:

Why do people with disabilities get so many benefits? I'm disabled as well, btw. Well mentally.?

Like for instance, my friend is ADHD and he gets free gas for his car. I have Epilepsy and I get free college. My other friend has autism and he gets automatically hired for easy part time jobs without having to go through a review or whatever you call it. I also am OCD and Bipolar, and I automatically get money put into my bank account from the government. I'm currently saving it up. Anyways, how come people who have disabilities (even if the disability is very mild), get so many things for free?

By the way, I'm not making this up. Someone thought I was lying about this but I'm not. So don't say this is BS like the other person said, just give me a helpful answer please :)

Question #11:

Why do people with disabilities get so many benefits? I'm disabled as well, btw. Well mentally lol.?

Like for instance, my friend is ADHD and he gets free gas for his car. I have Epilepsy and I get free college. My other friend has autism and he gets automatically hired for easy part time jobs without having to go through a review or whatever you call it. I also am OCD and Bipolar, and I automatically get money put into my bank account from the government. I'm currently saving it up. Anyways, how come people who have disabilities (even if the disability is very mild), get so many things for free?
What are u talking about? I'm not scamming or making this up. I'm being serious. Our doctors and other people who work with disabled people help us. It's not a lie, I do get free money, ask my doctor. I do get free college, as the lady who's in charge of perscribing my meds, and the other stuff I said is true too.

Question #12:

Why do people with disabilities get so many benefits? Some disabled people aren't really that disabled lol.?

Like for instance, my friend is ADHD and he gets free gas for his car. I have Epilepsy and I get free college. My other friend has autism and he gets automatically hired for easy part time jobs without having to go through a review or whatever you call it. I also am OCD and Bipolar, and I automatically get money put into my bank account from the government. I'm currently saving it up. Anyways, how come people who have disabilities (even if the disability is very mild), get so many things for free?
Sorry I put "lol" after lots of stuff, it's a habit I got after my friend. Anyways, and Jessica, thats rude. If your a top contributer, you shouldn't be criticising people. I hate how yahoo is nowdays, people just can't be nice anymore.
And Nia, did you not read my additional details? I'm not laughing about THIS. I just put "lol" after things cuz it's a habit I got from a friend after watching him do it all the time. Also, I'm not cancelling my benefits. I didn't ask this cuz I'm unhappy with it, I only asked it cuz I'm curious about the way it works.
Jsy, why do you think I'm accusing disabled people? I'm disabled too and I wouldn't accuse people who are as well. Jeez, some of you guys answer this as if you only read the bold topic sentence >.<

Question #13:

free antivirus??????

my avast trial just expire i dont got any money right now to buy the full thing is there any good anti virus thats free and not just a trial?

Question #14:

Could Psychology of Motivation Save the US Economy?

Could the US Economy Be Saved by "Jobs Creation Prizes"?

In the past I have suggested prizes to get energy independence technology breakthroughs, and my suggestions were roundly ignored by the Powers that Be.

I'm from Manhattan -- I have Tude -- I'm still here -- and so, not giving an inch, here is my Modest Proposal for Today ---

National prizes for Job Creation.

These jobs have to last at least 24 months.

They can't be given to relatives or people already associated with the Job Creator Prize Contestant.

The prizes will be awarded on or about 15 January 2012.

They will be based on jobs created between 1 January 2011 and 1 January 2012.

The top ten contestants with jobs created about 10,000 jobs will get the prizes.

The prizes are twofold:

1. A Congressional Gold Medal as an Economy Booster -- and this comes with a large Certificate that states the Gratitude of the Nation, and that outlines in some detail the precise achievements of the medal winner. This would have a blue ribbon and a gold Congressional seal on it. It would come ready for framing.

2. A cash award of $10,000,000 (Ten Million dollars)

The jobs have to be for citizens of USA, performing at least 90% of the job duties in USA, while speaking English, and using skills learned by experience, in High School, or in College.

The jobs have to be profitable for the organization that hires the person. They can't be fake make-work jobs that just p*ss away money to get the gold medal. Each employed person must marginally contribute net profit to the firm that hires him/her.

Within this framework the jobs can be any legal activity. Drug dealing is not OK, but legal porn is OK, and import/export is OK, and manual labor crafts are OK, and intellectula work (researtch and writing) is OK, and farming is OK, and pavement laying, and making music, or art, or manufactured goods, or selling Pizzas or window caulk.

If the contestant commit criminal fraud by breaking the rules, or sneaky activities, then they will be personally prosecuted and get jailtime if that's what a jury decides.

So the contestants have skin in the game.

It's not a freebie giveaway program where they can cheat their way to victory and walk away with the cash and the medal scott free. They are at risk if they cheat. They can lose their liberty.

Ego is a world driver. More for men than for women. But that's OK. It's a fact.

You harness up that Ego for the National Good, and we might find a pathway out of our doldrums.

If the program works as planned, then for the next two year cycle, we can bump it up to 50 prizes of only $5,000,000 (Five Million dollars each). Once the new thing has been done, and people "get" how it works, you don't need as much money to bring contestants in to the process. That was never a major incentive anyway. It was just there so that folks would know that if they won, some of their expenses would be defrayed, and their personal bank account would get bigger -- so it's worth their time to at least consider.

Once tens of thousands of business people know the prizes are worth their time, you don't need to over-incentivize them with cash. The gold medal and the certificate is almost reward enough.

Ideally, you want the prize money to go down to around $1,000,000 (just to pay for overhead and marginal up front costs), and the number of prizes to go to 100 every year.

At some point you are creating a lot of new jobs.

Not by government "stimulus" stupidities. But by incentivizing the Ego drive in Business Personages.

One of these medals is a great resume item for folks in the CEO Circle.

It's almost like an alternative to Gates/Buffett style Foundation work.

This is better than giving money away -- it is teaching people to fish.

Question #15:

Jobs Creation Prizes as the Salvation of our Economy -- Would it Work?

Could the US Economy Be Saved by "Jobs Creation Prizes"?

In the past I have suggested prizes to get energy independence technology breakthroughs, and my suggestions were roundly ignored by the Powers that Be.

I'm from Manhattan -- I have Tude -- I'm still here -- and so, not giving an inch, here is my Modest Proposal for Today ---

National prizes for Job Creation.

These jobs have to last at least 24 months.

They can't be given to relatives or people already associated with the Job Creator Prize Contestant.

The prizes will be awarded on or about 15 January 2012.

They will be based on jobs created between 1 January 2011 and 1 January 2012.

The top ten contestants with jobs created about 10,000 jobs will get the prizes.

The prizes are twofold:

1. A Congressional Gold Medal as an Economy Booster -- and this comes with a large Certificate that states the Gratitude of the Nation, and that outlines in some detail the precise achievements of the medal winner. This would have a blue ribbon and a gold Congressional seal on it. It would come ready for framing.

2. A cash award of $10,000,000 (Ten Million dollars)

The jobs have to be for citizens of USA, performing at least 90% of the job duties in USA, while speaking English, and using skills learned by experience, in High School, or in College.

The jobs have to be profitable for the organization that hires the person. They can't be fake make-work jobs that just p*ss away money to get the gold medal. Each employed person must marginally contribute net profit to the firm that hires him/her.

Within this framework the jobs can be any legal activity. Drug dealing is not OK, but legal porn is OK, and import/export is OK, and manual labor crafts are OK, and intellectula work (researtch and writing) is OK, and farming is OK, and pavement laying, and making music, or art, or manufactured goods, or selling Pizzas or window caulk.

If the contestant commit criminal fraud by breaking the rules, or sneaky activities, then they will be personally prosecuted and get jailtime if that's what a jury decides.

So the contestants have skin in the game.

It's not a freebie giveaway program where they can cheat their way to victory and walk away with the cash and the medal scott free. They are at risk if they cheat. They can lose their liberty.

Ego is a world driver. More for men than for women. But that's OK. It's a fact.

You harness up that Ego for the National Good, and we might find a pathway out of our doldrums.

If the program works as planned, then for the next two year cycle, we can bump it up to 50 prizes of only $5,000,000 (Five Million dollars each). Once the new thing has been done, and people "get" how it works, you don't need as much money to bring contestants in to the process. That was never a major incentive anyway. It was just there so that folks would know that if they won, some of their expenses would be defrayed, and their personal bank account would get bigger -- so it's worth their time to at least consider.

Once tens of thousands of business people know the prizes are worth their time, you don't need to over-incentivize them with cash. The gold medal and the certificate is almost reward enough.

Ideally, you want the prize money to go down to around $1,000,000 (just to pay for overhead and marginal up front costs), and the number of prizes to go to 100 every year.

At some point you are creating a lot of new jobs.

Not by government "stimulus" stupidities. But by incentivizing the Ego drive in Business Personages.

One of these medals is a great resume item for folks in the CEO Circle.

It's almost like an alternative to Gates/Buffett style Foundation work.

This is better than giving money away -- it is teaching people to fish.
The answers so far indicate that you are not thinking "outside the box" with me. People are talking in terms of the standard routine variables -- taxes regulaion -- aggregate demand that we all learned about in Econ 101.

For this question -- come with me outside the box. My implicit premise is that individual persons -- egos, personalities -- personas -- people can be a brand new resource -- never thought of before - since everyone was staring blankly at the standard variables.

I say that one thing is very plain to me in this world -- individual people can make a huge difference. If Warren Buffett decided that his top and only priority in the next 12 months was to create 100,000 good new jobs HE could do it.

So could Bill Gates.

So could 50 other super high achiever individuals.

Whatever they want to get done -- these people can get done, and not just becuase they are rich. They are Ultra-Effective Individuals.

They make things happen you never learned in Econ 101.

Question #16:

Could the US Economy Be Saved by "Jobs Creation Prizes"?

In the past I have suggested prizes to get energy independence technology breakthroughs, and my suggestions were roundly ignored by the Powers that Be.

I'm from Manhattan -- I have Tude -- I'm still here -- and so, not giving an inch, here is my Modest Proposal for Today ---

National prizes for Job Creation.

These jobs have to last at least 24 months.

They can't be given to relatives or people already associated with the Job Creator Prize Contestant.

The prizes will be awarded on or about 15 January 2012.

They will be based on jobs created between 1 January 2011 and 1 January 2012.

The top ten contestants with jobs created about 10,000 jobs will get the prizes.

The prizes are twofold:

1. A Congressional Gold Medal as an Economy Booster -- and this comes with a large Certificate that states the Gratitude of the Nation, and that outlines in some detail the precise achievements of the medal winner. This would have a blue ribbon and a gold Congressional seal on it. It would come ready for framing.

2. A cash award of $10,000,000 (Ten Million dollars)

The jobs have to be for citizens of USA, performing at least 90% of the job duties in USA, while speaking English, and using skills learned by experience, in High School, or in College.

The jobs have to be profitable for the organization that hires the person. They can't be fake make-work jobs that just p*ss away money to get the gold medal. Each employed person must marginally contribute net profit to the firm that hires him/her.

Within this framework the jobs can be any legal activity. Drug dealing is not OK, but legal porn is OK, and import/export is OK, and manual labor crafts are OK, and intellectula work (researtch and writing) is OK, and farming is OK, and pavement laying, and making music, or art, or manufactured goods, or selling Pizzas or window caulk.

If the contestant commit criminal fraud by breaking the rules, or sneaky activities, then they will be personally prosecuted and get jailtime if that's what a jury decides.

So the contestants have skin in the game.

It's not a freebie giveaway program where they can cheat their way to victory and walk away with the cash and the medal scott free. They are at risk if they cheat. They can lose their liberty.

Ego is a world driver. More for men than for women. But that's OK. It's a fact.

You harness up that Ego for the National Good, and we might find a pathway out of our doldrums.

If the program works as planned, then for the next two year cycle, we can bump it up to 50 prizes of only $5,000,000 (Five Million dollars each). Once the new thing has been done, and people "get" how it works, you don't need as much money to bring contestants in to the process. That was never a major incentive anyway. It was just there so that folks would know that if they won, some of their expenses would be defrayed, and their personal bank account would get bigger -- so it's worth their time to at least consider.

Once tens of thousands of business people know the prizes are worth their time, you don't need to over-incentivize them with cash. The gold medal and the certificate is almost reward enough.

Ideally, you want the prize money to go down to around $1,000,000 (just to pay for overhead and marginal up front costs), and the number of prizes to go to 100 every year.

At some point you are creating a lot of new jobs.

Not by government "stimulus" stupidities. But by incentivizing the Ego drive in Business Personages.

One of these medals is a great resume item for folks in the CEO Circle.

It's almost like an alternative to Gates/Buffett style Foundation work.

This is better than giving money away -- it is teaching people to fish.

Question #17:

What program can I download for free that will REMOVE the bad image error virus?

BESIDES BITDEFENDER SUPERANTI SPYWARE AND MALWAREBYTES!!
I ran those programs and it didn't get rid of the virus.
I don't have any money to BUY a program for it to remove them. I need a program that not only scans, but REMOVES the viruses on my computer. I've tried so many and they either don't work or only "scan" for free and will only remove the viruses if you pay for the program. Please, please, give me another program to try >_<

Question #18:

Why are republicans so defensive when they are asked why they are accepting some of the government spending?

The following was a reply by a tea partier about another question that was asked about the unemployment extension:

My wife was about to quit her job to be a stay at home mother. She was laid off 1 month before she planned to quit. that was 118 weeks ago and she is still getting free money.
we donated a portion to our local tea-party

We dont need it but thanks Obama, it will help off-set the high taxes later
After this I put the following question out and got no reply:

Since 99 weeks is supposed to be the limit for unemployment, how can some take 118 weeks?
And why would republicans and libertarians take any when they are so against raising the deficit?

Do they not realizing they are also contributing to raising the deficit?

Shouldn't they just refuse it?
The defensive part was when I again asked about accepting government spending in another question that all jumped on.

I am not a democrat!
I am retired That's why I spend so much time here, can't afford to go anywhere. But I would gladly take a part time job.

Question #19:

does anyone know where i can watch adulthood for free on the internet?

I watched Kidulthood last night on youtube, + and it was really good quality.
I managed to get maybe an hour into this one before youtube cuts me off. All the other sites are asking for money after 72 minutes and are rubbish quality.

Anybody know any good places to watch it ? :)

Thanks !
Also i know this is kind of the wrong section but the movie section is kinda dead and i thought teens would know a bit more about this stuff.

X

Question #20:

Best virus protection out there?

So im planning on getting a new virus protection today and i used Norton before but its been awhile so they might have something better. Must cost money, i dont trust ANY free virus protection, one of them crashed a friends computer completely. But under 200$ please, thats a bit much to pay xD.
I agree Norton was laggy, but it doesnt matter to me too much, im not in much of a hurry so lagg doesnt matter to me, crashing and never turning on is more important to me xD





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